It’s been a while since I’ve made any sort of attempt to put my thoughts into coherent sentences, but transferring my thoughts to paper (or computer) has always been very therapeutic for me. So here I go again…
Some of you know, but most of you don’t-Justin and I are no longer together. I’m not going to go into the specifics here, but for those of you that have read my blog(s) before, you know that Justin and I have tried and tried and tried for 4 years to make us work. And we really did try hard. But, no one should have to change to make someone happy and after many tears and much deliberation, we decided to go our separate ways. So for the first time ever, I am on my own.
You may be thinking-she’s 29 years old…SURELY she hasn’t lived at home this whole time. And you’re right. When I was 18, I moved out of my mother’s house and into an apartment with 2 friends (and my boyfriend.)
And then back to mom’s (and the boyfriend with me, still) when 3 females and my boyfriend living under one roof didn’t work out.
And then I moved in with Charlie.
And then Bobby.
And then Chris.
And then back to mom.
And then Justin.
And now, here I am. 29 years old, 2 kids, and an apartment…all on my own.
So I am embarking on a journey that is bound to be insane and emotional and crazy and I plan on documenting it here. And I want you to come along for the ride. I used to say-I don’t care if you read my blog-but this time I do. I need opinions and feedback from you all. I want to know what you think. I want to know what you have to say whether it is positive or negative or indifferent. I am interested in your opinions and advice and whatever else you have to say. If you want to remain anonymous, that’s fine. I don’t (and won’t) have a traffic tracker on this site. I’m not blogging to get all into the politics of blogging like I have in the past. None of that matters anymore. What matters now is me and figuring out exactly who “me” is.
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And with a new table too! You're growing up on us Liz!
He he he.
xoxo
I've actually been thinking about you. I hope you are doing fine. I'm sure you are.
First, Yay I am so glad you are back!
Second, I am sorry you and Justin are no longer together but everything happens for a reason.
Third, I am anything but anonymous!
Kisses Girlie! I've missed you!
i love you. i miss you. we have swimmers!
I think you're amazing hon and I'm so glad you're back talking to us! I'm sorry things with Justin didn't work but discovering yourself is going to be an amazing thing... especially as you discover who you are and who your beautiful daughters see you to be.
I'm glad you're back, and I'm really glad you invited me to be here for the party.
Life just sucks sometimes, that's for sure. I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through some painful stuff. But you're about to have some amazing experiences and come out so much stronger on the other side.
You bet your ass I'll be here to provide snark and comfort simultaneously.
As the girls on SATC would say, "We can be each others soulmates and guys can just be an added bonus."
I'll be here for the ride, no matter how wild. :)
Obviously, this is meant to be and more than likely a gift from God to give you the opportunity to be souly and completely independent upon yourself with your children, among all to learn who you are as you reach your 30's. Spend your time determining who you are on your own before you can decide who you would be with someone else. Relationships makes more sense thereafter. Lord knows, I know. :-) You will do fine. You have a good head and you were learn more than you can imagine. Love you! Shay
Woohoooo!!!!! I am OFFICIALLY excited! So glad your back :) Also, crap I missed alot - hope all is well.
Liz. I'm here honey. Brave one. XX
Sorry about Justin.
I'm glad you are back! XOXXO!
hey. wow! I'm sorry about you and Justin. As one of your most loyal fans...I know you will be fine. I'm actually glad to see that you are going to be meeting and introducing yourself as just Liz...you are beautiful and lovely. I miss you and will see you soon.
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